College & University Information


How Parents Can Help Allieviate The Stress of Getting Into College


Getting into college is a stressful experience for most high school students. However, there are steps that parents can take to help alleviate the stress and make the experience more positive. To begin with, parents should make the process about "you" not "we" when discussing college choices, allowing the student to have a sense of empowerment or independence over the college selection and application process.

Parents should NEVER fill out applications, call schools or schedule appointments for their children with guidance counselors or admissions officers. High School students are quite capable of doing the work necessary for "getting in" to college. Parents should be open to the schools that their children are leaning toward and not fall into the "one school only" trap as the ultimate prize and reward. Always remember that the emphasis is on enjoying the learning experience, not winning. There are over 3,500 colleges in the US and only 200 of them accept fewer than _ of their applicants.

It is less important to push your child towards a prestigious school than it is to focus on the school that provides the proper match for successful learning and a meaningful college experience. Encourage your child to research schools early and make several visits to college campuses. Plan to accompany your child on these visits, but allow your child the freedom to explore and ask questions independently. Be supportive and encourage your child to do mock interviews with other adults to prepare for the college visits.

If possible, begin the college planning process in the 9th grade, so that your child can proceed in "baby steps" instead of at a fast-paced schedule. Parents need to remind their children that there are many colleges and many options and that it is "okay" if students don't get into their first choice selections.

--Katherine Cohen, President & CEO IvyWise LLChttp://www.ivywise.com

Katherie Cohen, Ph.D. is the founder and CEO of IvyWise, http://www.ivywise.com a comprehensive educational consulting company. Dr. Cohen graduated from Brown University in 1989 and continued her studies at Yale University, receiving Masters degrees in 1992 and 1994, and a Ph.D. in 1997. She received certification in College Admissions Counseling from U.C.L.A.

Dr. Cohen is the author of two books on college admissions. The Truth About Getting In, which serves as a detailed manual for approaching the college admissions application process and Rock Hard Apps: How to Write a Killer College Application, which follows three students through the college application process and uses dozens of other real applications to illustrate what's effective in a college application, and what's not.


MORE RESOURCES:

UH business school will go solar
Bizjournals.com, NC - 9 hours ago
The Shidler College of Business will be the first school on the University of Hawaii at Manoa campus to install solar panels. The 4.5-kilowatt photovoltaic ...


Stillwater Area High School to sponsor alumni day Tuesday
Lake Elmo Leader, MN - 18 hours ago
... Marquette University, Mills College, New York University, Occidental College, University of Wisconsin – Madison, and University of Washington. ...


Wright, Robinson Lead Cougars Past St. Mary's
CM Cougars, PA - 8 hours ago
Vanessa Wright scored a game-high 18 points to lead the Misericordia University women's basketball team to a 76-54 win at Saint Mary's College of Maryland ...


Panthers drop third in a row, fall 76-67
Franklin News Post, VA - 16 hours ago
By STEVEN MARSH - Sports Editor DANVILLE -- Averett University's Grant Center continues to be a metaphorical house of horrors for Ferrum College's men's ...


Henry Brandt. 92, trotted the globe and used Bible to guide others
Orlando Sentinel, FL - 1 hour ago
For more than 50 years, Henry Brandt traveled the world using the Bible to counsel others. No destination was too far to go for Brandt. ...


Rotary Club Taking Ambassadorial Scholarship Applications
Bristol Herald Courier, TN - 14 hours ago
Two scholarships will be offered for a one-year study abroad program (country to be selected by recipient). Application deadline is April 30 for the ...


Filipino artist Amorsolo takes up residence at Pacific
Stockton Record, CA - 2 hours ago
By Jennie Rodriguez STOCKTON - Filipino artist Don S. Amorsolo comes from a family of artists discernible by the legacy of his grandfather, ...


Boston Globe

Something new brews in Berkeley: patriotic pride
Boston Globe, United States - Jan 3, 2009
College Democrats used a golf cart to encourage voters on Election Day at UC-Berkeley. (Jim Wilson/ New York Times) By Sasha Issenberg BERKELEY, Calif. ...


Basketball: Holyoak, Enos earn DAC honors
Rapid City Journal, SD - 2 hours ago
By South Dakota Mines and Journal staff | Tuesday, January 06, 2009 RAPID CITY — South Dakota School of Mines women’s basketball star Bethany Holyoak was ...


Pitt No. 1 In Nation For 1st Time Ever
WPXI.com, PA - 19 hours ago
PITTSBURGH -- The University of Pittsburgh men’s basketball team will be ranked number one in the nation when the new college basketball polls are released ...

College-University - Google News

home | site map
© 2007